# Society Hates Adults
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The 21st century is the hardest era to live as an adult in society.
Real needs of the moving gears of society, especially psychological and moral ones, are dismissed. They experience burnout, mistreatment at workplace, narcissist abuse; last, but not least, **allegations in bad faith**.
Mental health awareness is also at is all-time peak.
However, to get proper mental health support you must be victim of something, and that something must trace back to childhood or early adolescence.
This is the truth of society exposed, in regard of issues affecting adults, and its consequences on society itself.
## You turned 18! Now, down through the slide
Let's suppose you are a teenager who just turned 18. It's fantastic, isn't it?
Social freedom, right to vote, driving, drinking, hot sex, cigarettes, ~ [^1]
You wake up and you find yourself fully accountable for your actions, your minor privilege waned, people who loved and supported you slowly leaving the pace to your peers, notorious for bullying you till you break down.
And younger people? They are the worst. Staying too close to them is grounds for allegations (we'll turn back on them later), and do even worse bullying. Even your classmate who is still 17 can report you for statutory rape[^1] (or start a smearing/cancel culture campaign on social media 'cus “we do a little trolling”)
You are supposed to leave your home, find a job, have a good social circle and follow the path society tells.
Except, society is a total douchebag.
Nothing is granted. Even the oxygen air is not for free. If you used to have permissive parents, you'll prove a feeling of betrayal.
You'll start experiencing the hardships of life. And it's never gonna end. Trust me, it's only going to get worse and worse.
Someone will find pleasure in Saturday nights with friends, spending evening at pubs, a significant other; last but not least, starting a family with the latter, in an attempt to bring childhood back into your home. Not realizing you just put on another liability.
I left career out intentionally because most of you can't even get promoted. Settling for a 9-5 is enough. With poor salary which is **barely enough** to buy groceries and feed the family *you* decided to create.
Most humans settle for whatever, don't have high desires, they just want emotional satisfaction. Then complain about being in debt and having no money.
[^1]: ages may vary based on your country. *Consult your local lawyer*
### How tall is the ladder?
As for family, most parents **don't even know what parenting is**! This leads to three possible outcomes:
1. You ordering around your child and preventing 'em from growing.
2. You forgetting and ignoring your child's needs.
3. You giving everything to your child from the very beginning so 'ey are content.
The three outcomes inevitably converge in one: your child will become entitled, detached from you, and hateful on adults.
Absent parents (outcome 2) also expose your child to get groomed or sexually abused, but providing support for survivors is beyond my scope (it's a saturated niche, after all).
Those neglected and abused children don't get to grow healthy at all. Let's say they fell off the ladder.
Excessive demands with no return also keep your child from becoming a functioning member. Either a punk or a NPC, no inbetween.
But the most dangerous educational attitude is **being permissive**. Giving them everything. Refusal of denial. That leads 'em to be entitled. And that will cause 'em to hit the floor so hard. Or grasp at straws in order to not get hurt.
Children learn narcissism that way. And narcissism is the Godfather of everything else.
## Heinous criminals behind an innocent façade
It's by now definitely appurated: children can exploit their innocent façade to commit atrocious crimes of any kind. And, thanks to a rigged legal system, they will not face consequences!
This phenomenon is nowadays widespread, thanks to the Internet, mostly to Gen Alpha pre-teens.
On June 11, 2025, [a 25-year-old trans woman on the way for the Philadelphia Pride got suddenly attacked by three pre-teens](https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/06/three-kids-viciously-threw-acid-on-a-trans-woman-she-now-needs-lots-of-support-donations/) — aged 8 through 12 — with usage of acid.
But the most well-known awareness arising comes from the Netflix series — ***Adolescence***.
The series follows the trial of a middle schooler getting convicted for the murder of a girl he liked. It's found out later on, the heavy influence of Internet and the manosphere (incel, redpill, looksmaxxing and the bullshit) on the happenings.
When the cops raid the murderer's house, he immediately declares his non-involvement. His father believes him at first, ||until cops show the defendants' father actual video footage of the murder, which proves the pre-teen guilty without chance of escape; his father realizes as his heart shatters to pieces.||
This seems fiction, but it's based on actual reality. “Children” are turning criminal. And parents, those who are meant to protect them the most, are easily eluded.
## Online is where minors thrive
Since its early ages, Internet has always been the favorite pastime of minors. They meet like-minded peers, join or build communities, and do whatever they would not in real life.
In the past, adult NEETs (and workers!) used to attend those spaces too.
Adults and minors coexisting in the same places has always led to grooming, catfishing, and age-gap relationships. All ending up on psychological abuse and e-cPTSD.
The next generation of minors has been made aware of all the risks. Consequence? **“Exposing p\*doph\*les” is now common place on Internet spaces**. Some minors (and adults who were abused as children) expressed their will to make it a whole-ass business!
Adults still entering minor-led spaces, unaccordingly, have not changed a lot since then.
Minors will often look at even the slightest hint of evidence, and amplify it, with the help of community. This may be as trivial as being a 22-year-old in a group where the mean age is 16-year-old.
Allegations, once out, go viral. This has resulted in: loss of your community, loss of your job, getting kicked out of own household. Subreddits such as r/JusticeServed and r/byebyejob illustrate clear examples of this conduct happening.
There were young adult online creators who even lost (or come close to losing) their life over allegations. Those were Inquisitor Ghost, Davide Garufi and other online creators who got groomed by the underage, as part of a *morality trolling* operation, then got “exposed” with the now constructed evidence.
The allegations go virals, the original allegators have fun, and someone dies among the laughs of everyone else.
Among those Miles Edgeworths of child abusers, there is one in particular, who made “condo” servers on Roblox and Discord as bait, let both adults and minors join, then **mass reported the adults**, resulting in loss of their account. Its name is Ruben Sim.
## The reality of job market
> Salary is not a right, good quality of life is \[...] if the adult loses his job, next time he *\*
> (A survivor of multiple instance of child abuse and activist)
Something you learn as soon as you become an adult, is that you have to find a livelihood to financially support your quality of life.
Most adults choose the 9-5 route, refuse to question anything, and live a subpar, ordinary life with friends at pub, possibly starting a family.
Some others go the entrepreneur route, and start polishing their image to be able to sell theirselves.
In both cases, this establishment of a relationship, the former with your employer, the latter with customers.
And a lasting relationship is founded on a good and solid **reputation**.
Most 9-5 don't even bother to secure the relationship. They just follow and conform.
Entrepreneurs, on the other hand, need to secure customers' trust. Any single negative connotation? Customers flock elsewhere. Let alone sex stuff, that's a nuclear bomb.
One thing entrepreneurs use to protect their reputation is **defamation lawsuits**.
That institution, however, has repercussions on freedom of speech, and has been used in the past to silence actual abuse.
That's why actual victims resort to [“cancel culture” on social media](/essays/justicialism.html), and their calls out against alleged abusers (no matter whether someone suffered or it's just a simple wrongdoing) add up and come to the point of doxxing, with clear intention of destroying the adult's life. Including open or closed letters to their employers!
The adult eventually **loses his job**, and their family is destroyed. Children end up harmed to protect children, how ironic.
Protecting working adults does its part into protection of children as well.
## Politics in the name of children
Name a common enemy for the entirety of political spectrum, from the far-leftist syndicalist to the fascist squad fighter.
I'll wait.
...
The correct answer is: ||**pedophiles** (aka child abusers — CA)||.
Yes, those who harm children. They are so hated that every political faction claims its opponent to harm children, and denies it being the one doing harm.
Leftists accuse right-wingers to be the CA, evidence being occasional[^3] sex scandals, especially in churches and around entrepreneurs.
Right-wingers, in turn, accuse leftists (misnaming them “liberals”) of “indoctrinating children”. The right-wing hate is mostly aimed at LGBTQ+ community:
The most likely to get allegated, though, is **libertarians**: those who refuse to deny their involvement because of their reduced moral concern.
In this mess, the needs of adults end up ignored.
Because people empathize with children more easily. And that's [a fact confirmed by science](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wv9Ypld85Qg).
Human **empathy** is **rigged in favor of children**. Politics is no exception.
Most politicians get their empathy easily exploited into approving censorship and anti-privacy bills, sugarcoated in “child protection bills”.
That's because they think more State control, more harm to privacy, will eventually benefit their children.
At the cost of harming adults, and in fact all people — child harm, ironically, is the one stuff most positively affected by that.
Congressmen are easily manipulable — *just put the noun “children”* on any bill. Even the most silly ones, e.g. a bill banning ceramic pots. They get unanimously passed.
[^3]: Not occasional at all, in fact. Again, they are the ruling class, there is no way they have no way to conceal.
### Adults lose in court
The Convention of Lanzarote, signed October 25, 2007 in Europe, and similar efforts worldwide, enforces mandatory criminalization of sex crimes involving minors, and apology of the former in written, visual, material and oral form.
It is also being applied (retroactively!) on speech, art, literature, costume, *no exceptions*. Countries who repeal it (it never happened tho, you know, empathy) have to respond of it for not enforcing it.
In a nutshell, “children” (i.e. minors under 18, per Section 3(a) of the Convention) can't be subjects or targets of:
- any form of sexual or nonsexual exploitation;
- extortion;
- prosecution, harassment or bullying, in person and online;
- discrimination (which is ironic since law itself establishes age limits);
- sex with adults, *in any context* (even art!). This in particular.
In July 2025, still in Europe, an amendment to the Digital Services Act, still targeted at minors, with the intent of enhancing their “protection” on social media by holding platforms accountable.
If a sex incident happens, no matter the context, if a single adult and a single minor is involved.
**The adult is always in the wrong**. Because the law **expresses consent for the underage**, and the consent is **no**.
Empathy helps children get more support and friends, be it actual abuse or mere trolling operations. The outcome is: **the adult is doomed to lose**.
## Adults can't be victims
> Where there is morality, there is no freedom. Where there is freedom, there is no morality.
Scapegoating a group is common in Politics; hearing “if you *\* you can't be victim” dog whistle is not rare there.
The most scapegoated group is, of course, child molesters.
As stated above, human empathy is rigged in favor of children. Which led to them having special treatment.
Children having this special treatment in an intersectional way paved the pathway to **objective moralism**.
That means: “there exists a morals separated from Politics. And that morals is not objectionable”.
As a consequence of society giving special privileges to children, “if you are an adult \[and did something with children\] you can't be a victim”, as they say.
It means, doing or even speaking in a certain way (especially about minors) suddenly invalidates all of your life struggles.
Even in jail — the most dangerous place to stay with those allegations! — where convicted sex offenders share a space with the most brutal criminals. Here, the harassment, emargination and ostracism CSO's face is amplified to full extent. Beating “chomo”'s up is normalized. Most don't even manage to survive their full jail time.
That's why actual abusers, more than anyone else, care about their reputation. And it's basic human instinct. You don't want more suffering.
## Why we need a movement for Adults' Rights
No existing movement dares calling out the bullshit of minors, and the unconditional defense of them.
Abuse against alleged “chomo”s is internalized and enabled, and if someone dares speak up in favor, they are attacked and marked as “defenders” or “enablers”.
There is the need for a lifeline, a point of reference for those who fear being lost in the deep sea of criticism, consequences and inequality.
Adults' Rights is the solid opposition society needs to bring back balance, and restore into oppressed adults the humanity they deserve.
Children control today's world. It's time we, as adults, **take back rule**.
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